I grew up in a quasi-rural area of Washington State. It was one of those places where it isn’t uncommon for someone to have an acre or two upon which a horse, some sheep or maybe a cow or two grazed. To get to the road you’d usually have to walk up a gravel road, and once you got there you had to watch out lest you get squished by a potato truck coming down from someone’s farm up in the hills.
Most people weren’t farmers, though. Most just liked the slower pace of life, or couldn’t afford a place closer to town. Think mobile homes, cars on blocks, gun racks, chewing tobacco, etc.
Thankfully, I was lucky to grow up pretty firmly entrenched in the middle class, and never really understood why my parents chose to live so far away from civilization. I guess you could say that I never took to the whole rural thing. I wasn’t happy waking up one morning to the not-so-pleasant sounds of a neighbor slaughtering a cow, and I’ve never really understood the appeal of hunting (I’m the type of guy who captures house spiders so that they can be turned loose outside). As soon as I could, I got out.
One thing I did appreciate, though, was the quietness of life in The Middle of Nowhere™. I would often sit outside on warm summer nights, reading and occasionally listening to the distant howling of coyotes (and trying not to contemplate the fate of whatever small animal they had just taken). While I now live in a relatively quiet cul de sac in suburban California, there’s always the sound of traffic or neighbors nearby. You’re never far from somebody. A lot of somebodies.
When my mom’s house was originally built, there was almost nobody for miles. You could literally look down toward the banks of the Columbia river - about a mile away - and see nothing but poplar trees and a few cows in between. Now, single family homes are popping up all over the place, and the cows are mostly gone now. Granted, they are on acre sized parcels, but it’s only a matter of time before the area is fully developed. I’m not really sure how I feel about that.
As time goes on and humanity stretches out across the globe, though, it seems that many of these lonely places are disappearing, replaced by the products of human development. A byproduct of progress, I suppose, but I still wonder how our feelings will change when all such places are gone.










